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In Your Voice

The Issue of Home Birth in Australia

Submitted by Kate Gorman, Co-Director/Producer The Face of Birth Are you looking to do a fundraiser for your group or to gather all your friends and colleagues together around a new birth film? Starting March 8th International Women’s Day you can host a screening in your living room, community theater, or wherever you choose of the much anticipated Documentary,The Face of Birth Documentary (87 minutes 2012, Australia).

The Issue of Home Birth in Australia

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In Australia in 2009 it nearly became illegal to have a home birth! A new government introduced maternity law reforms that required every midwife to have Public Indemnity insurance. Whilst this may be not a bad thing in itself, no insurer would cover independent midwives who attended homebirths. And at the time apart from a tiny number of hospital/home birth programs the only way to have a homebirth in Australia was with an independent midwife.

It was proposed that if a midwife continued to attend home birth without insurance she would be fined $30,000 and deregistered. If a mother paid a midwife to attend her at home she could be charged with criminal intent. How could this have happened? Australia once had close ties to the UK with historically similar health care systems, however in the UK, still to this day, a woman can chose where to give birth and a mother can chose a home birth all completely funded by the National Health Care System.

Following announcements of the proposed new laws, in September 2009 over 3,000 people, mostly mothers, prepared to march in protest on the national Parliament House. Just hours before the protest commenced the government announced it was giving independent midwives a reprieve allowing them to practice for another two years (this later was extended to three, then to five years). With this announcement came regulations that the midwife would have to collaborate with an obstetrician who would have to ‘sign off’ on the midwife being able to attend.

It was at this rally at Parliament House that filming started on the Birth Documentary The Face Of Birth. Since the film’s release in Australia in 2012 the government has again extended the exemption for independent midwives and amended the collaboration agreement allowing midwives to also collaborate with health professionals/services such as hospitals and General Practitioners. A slight improvement but in the meantime many independent midwives have given up and their numbers have dwindled across the national, especially in rural areas. Despite this the Home birth rate has nearly doubled from 2008 to 2012! It seems women want the choice despite it having become more difficult to access.

The film was taken up by various lobby groups who used it to apply additional pressure to the ‘powers that be’. Further changes followed where independent midwives can also qualify for a health insurance rebate, meaning that the mother paying the midwife can recover some costs for ante natal and post natal care (but strangely not for the actual birth).

Some of the Australian State governments have also looked for solutions. In Victoria two large hospitals started up home birth pilot programs – offering not only the option of birth at home but also continuity of care with caseload programs. The programs became incredible popular incredibly quickly.

While women in Australia are struggling and fighting for their rights, in New Zealand, Australia’s close neighbours, they have in place what US Anthropologist Robbie Davis-Floyd has declared the best maternity service in the world. Where women can choose home, hospital or birth centre birth all funded and also choose their lead maternity carer (80% of women choose a midwife). The lead maternity carer stays with the woman during the care and if the mother chooses to change place of birth, i.e. from hospital to home or birth centre to hospital, during the pregnancy even during the labour, their lead maternity carer can go with them.

FoB DVD coverWhile the beginnings of change are being felt in Australia, there is still there is a long way to go.

With birth choices being so limited in countries like Hungry, Croatia, Russia and the US – where it is illegal is some states to have a homebirth – films like The Face Of Birth, Freedom for Birth and Organic Birth are going a long way to help educate and create change for all the women who are yet to have their babies. It is at screenings of these films that women and families gather and share experience good and bad. Groups, rallies, websites, activism and general support for women is born from these community screenings. The human rights issue of choice for place of birth is an issue for all humanity.

 

To see more and have your own screening visit www.faceofbirth.com.

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Two-Minutes of Lactivism from Jill

Submitted by Jill Wodnick, M.A., LCCE

Social Determinants on Birth: A Call for Doula Training Organizations to Address Perinatal Disparaties

The city of Newark, NJ demands our attention in the birth world. Is it the 40% of Newark mothers who received late or no prenatal care; is it the 694 (15%) mothers who were breastfeeding upon hospital discharge, or is it that the time to prove to policy makers that social determinants of health are the elephant in the room….it is time to look at the big picture and focus on eradicating & eliminating poverty and racism as the tool to improve birth.

Indiana African American BF Coalition For too many doulas, they will be able to offer words of comfort and use a rebozo, but may never have had the training to learn about perinatal disparities and social determinants on health. We know about the high cesarean birth rate, but what about perinatal disparities which impact breastfeeding rates as well as birth outcomes.

Social determinants of health is defined as factors such as income, education, occupation, employment, housing, child care, family structure, and neighborhood characteristics, which are thought to have powerful effects on health and yet are beyond the reach of medical care.

If you have not heard of how social determinants impact health, hear the words from the Association for Children of NJ, a non profit, non partisan group that just conducted their annual Kid’s Count data, consider this: ‘A baby born in Newark today will likely be born to a single mother who at best, has only a high school education and is working at a low paying job. Most of her paycheck will go to rent, leaving little left over for food….Her job is not likely to offer health benefits, so she may not receive the early prenatal care that can reduce the risk that her baby will be born premature…”

The data reveals that a disproportionate amount of young children in Newark spend their first years in poverty. Paul Tough’s new book “How Children Succeed” examines how  poverty-related stress can affect brain development, and inhibit the development of non-cognitive skills. He argues that persistence, self-control, curiosity, conscientiousness, grit and self-confidence, are more crucial than sheer brainpower to achieving success and these non cognitive skills are deeply impacted by the prenatal and infant relationships.

It seems that Newark Mayor Cory Booker had read ‘How Children Succeed.’ At the Kids Count data presentation on February 6, 2013,  he spoke of early experiences mattering, singing to 7 month babies and the impact of stress in the prenatal period. He also spoke of the impact of poverty on parenting.

But what he did not speak about, was the value of reducing barriers to promote exclusive breastfeeding as a strategy to improve children’s health. New Jersey has the highest rate of obesity among low income children, ages 2-5 since 2008. As birth professionals, we know the U.S. Surgeon General’s Call to Action documents that breastfeeding is a preventative  behavior that can reduce childhood obesity, asthma and juvinille diabetes, in addition to fostering social and emotional bonds of attachment between that mother and baby. As Newark, NJ has for this moment has a funding commitment to create a Newark Early Childhood Council from the Foundation for Newark’s Future, we must take this moment to share the evidence, science and psychology that links exclusive breastfeeding to health indicators and the multi faceted tools to reduce barriers, especially for women of color and low income mothers.

Alas, too many doulas have never been taught about perinatal disparities in birth outcomes.  It is imperative that all doula training programs have as part of their training a curriculum that examines disparities in birth outcomes and the role of social determinants on health.

Newark NJ Housing & Urban Development has started ‘cradle to college initiatives’ and many school districts across the country are now looking at the birth and perinatal period as formative experiences for the classroom. Doulas and birth professionals are at a pivitol crossroads right now with a myriad of public and private initiatives recognizing that birth and breastfeeding outcomes are more optimal with a trained doula or community peer educator. Yet too many doula training programs do not address the disparities in birth outcomes  nor link healthy birth and breastfeeding to life long children’s health.

I go back to the words of Paul Tough, “The part of the brain most affected by early stress is the prefrontal cortex, which is critical in self-regulatory activities of all kinds, both emotional and cognitive. As a result, children who grow up in stressful environments generally find it harder to concentrate, harder to sit still, harder to rebound from disappointments and harder to follow directions. And that has a direct effect on their performance in school. When you’re overwhelmed by uncontrollable impulses and distracted by negative feelings, it’s hard to learn the alphabet.”

The link between racism, poverty and perinatal outcomes are clear. The link between exclusive breastfeeding and children’s health indicators are clear.  The link of woman to woman support is clear. We can contribute to a more just, healthy and sustainable world by making an impact on birth and breastfeeding.  Imagine if all birth professionals learned about their role in the cradle to college pipeline and their work was put in the context of social determinants. Imagine if all the birth professionals wrote a few sentences to the Foundation for Newark’s Future asking them to fund a sustainable and innovative community based breastfeeding program with measurable goals and outcomes. One woman at a time, I pray a better world; for welcoming centers of integrative care, of respectful births, of indivisible breastfeeding support and the lullabyes for all children. Please read the poem by Ina Hughes– it reminds me of why I pray for all children and why our work in woman to woman support must continue.

Additional resources:
http://kirwaninstitute.osu.edu/research/opportunity-communities/
http://buildingblocksalamedacounty.wordpress.com/2012/10/23/kellogg-foundation-to-fund-best-babies-zone-in-alameda-county/
http://www.cpehn.org/pdfs/Achieving%20Greater%20Health%20-%20Shrimali%206-12.pdf http://www.unnaturalcauses.org/assets/uploads/file/ClosingTheGapBWBirthOutcome.pdf http://www.surgeongeneral.gov/library/calls/breastfeeding/calltoactiontosupportbreastfeeding.pdf

Sample letter you can write to Foundation for Newark’s Future:
http://foundationfornewarksfuture.org/contact/
Dear Foundation for Newark Future, as a childbirth professional, I am so excited for your commitment to improve the early experiences of infants and toddlers in the City of Newark announced at the ACNJ Kids Count Data. As you are finding programs to fund with measurable outcomes,  please consider a community breastfeeding initiative.   NJ has the highest rate of obesity among low income children ages 2-5 since 2008 and that exclusive BF is a health behavior that impacts literally reduces childhood obesity, asthma and juvinile diabetes, in addition to the social and emotional attachment and engagement of mothers and babies.  A community based BF program which has had great success in many other cities could enhance and compliment the health of all families in the city of Newark and work with linakages and collaborations.  I am happy to share resources on evidence based community breastfeeding programs, like the COPE Perinatal/JJ Way Community Lactation program from Orlando, FL or the Health Connect One breastfeeding program from Chicago in addition to social media programs like Best for Babes that focus on reducing barriers to exclusive BF.  I am happy to share my ideas and support for this initiative and would like to set a phone call to share  the science about why BF is linked to improving health outcomes and shaping the early experiences of new families in need.

(your name and number)

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We Pray for Children by Ina Hughes (poem)

We Pray for Children poem by Ina Hughes is part of Jill Wodnick’s Social Determinants on Birth article published on this site.

We pray for children
Who put chocolate fingers everywhere,
Who like to be tickled,
Who stomp in puddles and ruin their new pants,
Who sneak Popsicles before supper,
Who erase holes in math workbooks,
Who can never find their shoes.

And we pray for those
Who stare at photographers from behind barbed wire,
Who can’t bound down the street in new sneakers,
Who never “counted potatoes,”
Who are born in places we wouldn’t be caught dead in,
Who never go to the circus,
Who live in an X-rated world.

We pray for children
Who bring us sticky kisses and fistfuls of dandelions,
Who sleep with the cat and bury goldfish,
Who hug us in a hurry and forget their lunch money,
Who squeeze toothpaste all over the sink,
Who slurp their soup.

And we pray for those
Who never get dessert,
Who have no safe blanket to drag behind them,
Who can’t find any bread to steal,
Who don’t have any rooms to clean up,
Whose pictures aren’t on anybody’s dresser,
Whose monsters are real.

We pray for children
Who spend all their allowance before Tuesday,
Who throw tantrums in the grocery store and pick at their food,
Who like ghost stories,
Who shove dirty clothes under the bed,
Who get visits from the tooth fairy,
Who don’t like to be kissed in front of the car pool,
Who squirm in church and scream on the phone,
Whose tears we sometimes laugh at and whose smiles can make us cry.

And we pray for those
Whose nightmares come in the daytime,
Who will eat anything,
Who have never seen a dentist,
Who are never spoiled by anyone,
Who go to bed hungry and cry themselves to sleep,
Who live and move, but have no being.

We pray for children
Who want to be carried
And for those who must,
For those we never give up on
And for those who never get a second chance,
For those we smother.
And for those who will grab the hand of anybody kind
enough to offer it.

We pray for children. Amen.

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Response to: Silence, Denial, Abuse on Maternity Wards

HRiCSubmitted by: Heather Hancock RN RM PhD FRCNA FACM MAPS
The following is the letter Heather wrote in response to an article that appeared on Canadian Maternity List which, at the time, was focused: Silence, Denial- abuse on maternity wards. The discussion originated from a confidential listserve of providers talking about the issues (so we cannot reprint) but much of the discussion came from Henci Goer’s “Cruelty in Maternity Wards” article http://ow.ly/hkAay
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I am also a voice from down under who joined the list as a midwife and in March I will be starting private practice as a Perinatal Psychologist – and will still be a midwife.

I have had innumerable midwives and midwifery students tell me that they will be seeing me as soon as I start as they have felt marginalised, ostracised, intimidated, battered and badly hurt because of how they have been treated in their practice or because of the dreadful things they have seen women experience – and this is the 21st century………..

I have seen women over the last 12 months of supervised practice who have been left feeling empty, shattered, violated and far worse because of their experiences and not just because of undesirable or adverse birth outcomes. Too many of them experienced births that were deemed a safe outcome for mother and baby, even a normal birth, but within that the mother’s psychological status was not even recognised let alone considered because of competing/conflicting interests between health professionals, outright bullying towards them, aggression and anger, and more……….

My mantra has become —— A safe birth is not enough ——- it is not sufficient to say the baby and mother were ‘saved’, when in reality they will both suffer as the mother is unable to form an attachment to her baby and they can both fall into deep sadness and loss – it is distressing to see. Women carry the burden of their labour and birth for their lives and it will either continue to weigh them down and debilitate them or it can be a joyful affirming memory for them.

Midwifery students are the future of the profession and to see them worn down before they even commence professional practice is a tragedy and often their ‘sin’ is simply being woman centred; midwives who advocate with women and are likewise woman centred pay a heavy price for this as well and they too often are not able to recover from this and suffer for the rest of their lives with a burden of emotional and physical pain.

I have also had medical students share their shock at what they have seen and experienced in the maternity care arena and vow to keep well out of it as professionals.

This is not new – what is wrong with us?

I have avoided naming who did what to whom – the experience inflictions are shared between groups. There are also wonderful midwives and obstetricians in maternity care but sadly not all are wonderful. I have thought about this for so long and considered the possible power of local and national efforts and also been involved in interprofessional teaching between midwifery and medical students but it has not ever been enough.

I think it is time for concerted genuine international address so that the same shared message is disseminated and the same shared strategies are activated globally – it is not good enough for women to be part of this and we can never say births are safe while this continues around and to them.

Sorry for the length – it obviously struck a cord and I thank you for reading this and hopefully thinking about this.

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Heather HancockBIOGRAPHY Heather Hancock RN RM PhD FRCNA FACM MAPS is a midwife and psychologist (specialising in perinatal psychology). Heather has had significant involvement in midwifery research and education including development and coordination of Bachelor and Master of Midwifery programs, and continues to practice as a midwife. Heather has developed home birth and midwifery group practice models of care, worked as a midwife in public urban, rural, regional and remote settings, private settings and women’s homes and conducted evaluations of models of practice. Heather has worked with Aboriginal women and their families in evaluating perinatal health and wellbeing, developing quality indicators for maternity services for Aboriginal women and improving access to continuity of midwifery carer for Aboriginal women in remote communities. Heather has been recognised with Teaching Excellence awards and also been Midwife of the Year; she is a Fellow of the Australian College of Midwives (ACM) and the Chair of the ACM Midwifery Education Advisory Committee. Currently, Heather is an Adjunct Associate Professor at the University of Adelaide and is involved in various national and international journals as a reviewer. Heather is also an Accreditation Assessor for Nursing, Nurse Practitioner and Midwifery with the Australian Nursing and Midwifery Accreditation Council. Heather is a Mentor Researcher for the Rural Research Capacity Building Program (NSW Institute of Rural Clinical Services and Teaching). Heather is co-author with Lareen Newman of Better Birth which has been revised and is being re-released in May 2013 as an ebook.

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Sweden: Warmth at the Birth House

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“Flying over the lakes, snow and shimmering landscape of Sweden, the jagged coast line appears as I anticipate my days ahead facilitating a Pleasurable Birth Workshop.” – Debra Pascali-Bonaro

Submitted by: Bodil Frey & Debra Pascali-Bonaro

January 2013  Debra Pascali-Bonaro facilitated a Pleasurable Birth Workshop in Sweden with Bodil Frey, a doula, educator and Gothenburg host, Thea van Tuyl, a doula, educator, and rebozo expert from the Netherlands.

Bodil Frey, workshop host and head of Födelsehuset starts off by sharing with us about birth in Sweden, “Sweden has a good reputation when it comes to birth care and very few babies die around the time of birth. Sweden ranks in the top of that statistic and also has very low numbers of maternal death. The medical system likes to take the credit for this but we also have, of course, a good social security net and Sweden is a wealthy country without major gaps between rich and poor.

“Some of the good things in Swedish maternity care: the care is free for everyone; in pregnancy you go to prenatal care where you often meet the same midwife every time; you do normally not meet a doctor during this time, except perhaps at the ultrasound scan; first time mothers and their partners can go to a free birth preparation class with a midwife; at birth in the hospital you also meet only midwives if there is no complication or epidural.

“Some of the not-so-good things in Swedish maternity care: we lack options; there are no alternatives to hospital birth in most parts of Sweden; in some places there are homebirth midwives, but with some exception we pay privately for their service; planned homebirth is only one per thousand births in Sweden; there are no birth centers; no one can expect to give birth in the hospital with a midwife they know before. (One exception would be the Crown Princess Victoria who gave birth this year with a midwife she had met before!). Even though the midwives handle normal births, the system is getting more and more medicalized. Ceasareans are 17% and steadily rising. And the fears around birth increase- both for the women and for the medical staff.”

The association Bodil founded is Födelsehuset, a cozy home with a kitchen, office and two rooms for us to create a red tent of sharing over a two-day weekend. January in Sweden is cold, a layers of fresh white snow gives light and brightens the cold, gray days, which have more darkness then light this time of year. The warmth inside this space, generated by the pellet stove, feels so good and soon the warmth and light in each of us opens up and shines throughout the room.

Sweden Birth HouseFödelsehuset was founded in 2007 in Gothenburg. Bodil writes, “The name means ”The Birth House” and is a vision of one house– help and support around the woman and baby. Instead of a conveyor belt passing through different institutions and always new faces. We were inspired of the ”Geburtshaus” in Germany. Födelsehuset was founded by parents, doulas and midwifes who wanted to speak up for a better birth care and more options. The logo shows how the newborn heart and the mother heart are protected by the house.

“Since four years Födelsehuset also has funding from the county, to provide doula care for new immigrant women who are pregnant. We have now 27 doulas who themselves have an immigrant background. Their mother tongue are Arabic, Somali, Persian, Kurd, Turkish, Serbocroatian and many more languages. The doulas speak Swedish and can help with the communication between the woman and the medical caregivers. More than 400 women have had a doula during the past years and they are very welcome by the midwives. We also arrange birth preparation classes in some languages, and have started a ”Mother Center”, staffed by doulas, in an area where many immigrants live.

“We also collect information, arrange prenatal classes, lectures and workshops Rebozossuch as Debra’s 2-day Advanced Birth Support for Doulas and Midwives Workshop held here this weekend with Debra and Thea. Thea van Tuyl shared with us her beautiful Guatemalan Rebozos and many techniques to provide comfort in labor from her book – The Rebozo Technique Unfolded. A weekend like this is more than learning skills and getting information. For example, when we practice on one another how to use the rebozo we get just the same things we want to give to our clients- trust, a deep contact, healing, relaxation.”

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“When we practice on one another how to use the rebozo we get just the same things we want to give to our clients- trust, a deep contact, healing, relaxation.” – Bodil Frey

Debra loves to weave in exercise of listening, non-verbal communication and if appropriate touch, hugs and caring embraces to her workshops. Debra writes, “During labor there are many hours that we are together in silence, where no words are needed. Yet our connection and support remains strong. On the last day, Sunday morning, I can feel it is time for our group to look into each other eyes and go deeper into what it is to unconditionally nurture each other and thus others on their journey from maidenhood to motherhood. Without words our eyes, body and touch says so much. Even more than normal words of greeting. We have gone deeper, letting another to connect with us and to answer back with our eyes that we are here for you. Just as we greet a newborn, welcoming them with our eyes, our touch, our hearts open wide and then words of acknowledgement. Tears flow, hearts open as we feel our connections, oxytocin sparkles in our brains and body as without words so much is said and expressed between us.

“All over the world when women gather to speak of birth, our life-challenges and successes pour into the conversation, tears of joy and of sadness flow easily. Debras workshopOur collective experience, wisdom and diversity is amazing. Our group represents four countries: Sweden, Netherlands, South Africa and the U.S.- sixteen women and one man. It is powerful to give another our unconditional love and acceptance. I ask each person to share his or her vision for birth with another. What can we each do to make a difference in how women, men and babies are cared for and greeted in our community, country or world?”

Please share with us what you hope to bring to the birth community in your future. Födelsehuset has plans to participate in the Human Rights in Childbirth Conference and Exhibition in Stockholm in the end of the year and Debra looks forward to sharing more workshops with Bodil and other birth workers in Sweden later this year, as well as other workshops around the world.

SwedenThank you to Bodil Frey for sharing with us about birth in Sweden. Bodil is the chair of the association Födelsehuset, and a Doula and Childbirth educator. She is also the leader of the immigrant doula project. She can be contacted at: bodil.frey [AT] enbrastart.se.

To read more about the Immigrant Doula Project visit: http://fodelsehuset.se/doulakulturtolk and at the bottom-left of the page you can download two articles in English about the organization including: “Midwives’ experiences of doula support for immigrant women in Sweden” and “Foreign-Born Women’s Experiences of Community-Based Doulas in Sweden.”

 

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“Beautiful Girl” Dr. Northrup’s self-image book for girls launches

Your body is perfect just the way it is! Treat it with gentle care and embrace the changes as you grow! Are these the messages you received as a child? Whether you are a mother trying to share positive body image with your daughter or a grown woman looking to improve the image you have of yourself, Dr. Northrup & Kristina Tracy’s “Beautiful Girl: Celebrating the Wonders of Your Body” is  sure to delight and inspire.

Beautiful Girl 1mb Personally I love these type of books and whenever I start reading them to my daughter she loves hearing the stories and affirmations. It would be nice to think we say all the right things all the time but in reality, it is wonderful to have a little help from one of the most amazing teachers of women’s health and wellness: Dr. Christiane Northrup! And Kristina Tracy has co-authored some other great books so we can’t wait to read this one.

So hop on down to Hay House or B&N or Amazon and pick up your copy so we can all start sharing Dr. Northrup’s message. And be sure to take advantage of the freebie currently being offered (until January 23rd) from Hay House Radio- purchase a copy of Beautiful Girl and you’ll automatically be enrolled for Dr. Northrup’s upcoming 2-hour Live Online Event happening January 24th, Feeling Beautiful geared towards grown women who wish to transform their relationship with their body. And if you can’t make the online event, they will email you an mp3 that you can listen to anytime. If you order from HayHouse.com, the Free Online Course will automatically be added to your cart during checkout. If you order from another retailer, please click here to provide Hay House with your order # and they will email you with a priority code to use to receive the course for Free. Enjoy!

“When Dr. Northrup’s 86-year-old mother Edna read Beautiful Girl the first time, she was visibly moved. Edna told Dr. Northrup that she wished she had a book like Beautiful Girl when she was little.”

beautiful girl strong roots“The inspiring and knowledgeable author, Christiane Northrup, who is well known for her education and support of women facing life changes, takes it to the next level by including young women of all ages in her target audience. She shares that young women have special bodies to be cherished and honored and gently opens the door to discussion of physical and mental growth. The graphics are gentle and totally appropriate in a fairy tale sort of way adding abundantly to the story. I received this e-book from Hay House and recommend it to any parent who will soon be engaging in `the talk’.”    ~ Jeanie Beresford NTP (Amazon review)

 

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Introducing “In Your Voice”

In Your Voice

This community has a strong voice and message for birth today, and we want to showcase what you are discovering. If you have a desire to write a blog post, then we welcome you with open arms. Send me an email to debrapascalibonaro@gmail.com.

-Debra

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Now Is the Time to Let Our Voices Be Heard

Submitted by: Hermine Hayes-Klein

The United Nations has devoted this year’s Human Rights Day to “the rights of all people…to make their voices heard in public life and be included in political decision-making.”  What better time to acknowledge the global movement raising its voice for human rights in childbirth. As cesarean rates skyrocket around the world, and women exchange stories  of coercion and force in obstetric care, it should come as no surprise that people are organizing to demand change.

What are human rights in childbirth? Every health care system in the world faces the same essential questions. Who decides how a baby is born? Who chooses where a birth takes place? Who bears the ultimate responsibility for a birth and its outcome? What are the legal rights of birthing women? What are the responsibilities of doctors, midwives and other caregivers in childbirth? What are the rights and interests of the unborn, and who has the authority to make decisions on its behalf?

HRiCIn 2010, Hungarian mother Anna Ternovszky took these questions to the European Court of Human Rights.  After the healthy, safe, and empowering birth of her firstborn, at home, with the midwife Agnes Gereb, Anna objected to the fact that her ability to hire Agnes a second time was affected by the threat of legal sanction against Agnes for attending her at home.  In the decision of Ternovszky v. Hungary, the Court held that birthing women have a fundamental human right to choose the circumstances in which they give birth. The foundations for this right include the rights to privacy, to autonomy, to control over our own bodies, and the right to make decisions for our children even as we are giving birth to them. Ternovszky is only binding on European nations, but this fundamental human right applies to all women everywhere. As a birthing woman, you have the right to meaningful choice and genuine support for your personal needs around and during childbirth, whether those needs are for planned cesarean section or undisturbed home birth with reliable medical backup.

As a birthing woman, nobody can tell you that you “must” do anything. Nobody can “let you” or “not let you” do anything. Nobody can pressure or force you into a cesarean section that you do not believe is in the interest of yourself and your baby. Nobody can cut an episiotomy if you do not consent to one. Nobody can do anything to your body or your baby without discussing it with you first and asking for your consent. You have the right to be the ultimate authority over everything that occurs around your body’s birth of your baby.

These are the fundamental human rights of the birthing woman. And yet, these rights are so commonly violated, that most women are not even aware that they have them. In both the developed and the developing world, women are too often treated with disrespect and abuse, including subjection to unnecessary, damaging, and costly surgical interventions. They are told what will happen to them, or not even asked. As women raise awareness of problems in birth care common to most modern obstetric systems, they are realizing that many of these problems could be addressed by acknowledgment of the woman’s right to make the decisions of childbirth, of her ultimate authority over the birth process.

Many disagree that pregnant women retain the fundamental human rights applicable to healthcare. In only the last month, vocal proponents of medical birth called the Respectful care in childbirthclaim that birthing women have a human right to autonomy “unethical” and “morally grotesque.” What I find unethical and morally grotesque is the assertion that a doctor, making decisions about a patient , has more authority over an unborn baby than the woman who has grown it out of her own flesh and blood.  Especially a doctor with a 35% cesarean section rate.

In the article linked above on moral grotesquerie, media darling “Dr. Amy” revealed her opinion that physiological birth, undisturbed maternal-newborn bonding, and the right to avoid unnecessary abdominal surgery have a value equal to manicures. I disagree, and I am not alone. Women are ready to stand up for the simple right to respectful support in childbirth. Dr. Amy claims that the right to autonomy in childbirth is a wealthy, western white woman’s concern, and she will not be the last to say so. Every woman’s movement has met this charge: “There are women dying in poverty, women who can’t feed their children, and you spoiled bitches dare to make a fuss about the right to own property/ right to vote/ right to education/ right to equal work and equal pay? You obviously have too much time on your hands.” It is true that one cannot fight for more than survival, when survival is in question. But that doesn’t mean that women have a right to survival alone. As nations challenge their birth care systems to meet Millennium Development Goal 5, they can do so in a way that replicates the institutional human rights violations of Western obstetrics, or they can evolve birth care to respect the fundamental human rights of the women they aim to assist. Ask women in the developing world if they are unconcerned with disrespect and abuse in childbirth.

The idea that the doctor, and not the woman, holds authority over decision-making in childbirth is so entrenched that it will take a paradigm change to put the woman back at the center of birth care.  The momentum is building, around the world, capable of generating this transformation.  The hundreds of people energized by the 2012 Human Rights in Childbirth (HRiC) Conference  in The Hague became tens of thousands of people inspired by the 1000 global screenings of Freedom for Birth on September 20th.  In the next week, the circle of activists will expand with the release of a 15-minute free version of Freedom for Birth and the launch of new functionalities on the HRiC website that will help people from around the world to find and join the organizations working to improve birth where they live.

If you believe Martin Luther King, Jr.  that the “arc of the moral universe is long, but it bends toward justice,” then there is reason to hope that the fundamental human right to autonomy and authority in childbirth will be recognized. But the only way this will happen will be if birthing women demand their rights. As Anna Ternovszky, the plaintiff who asked justice of the ECHR, said in Freedom for Birth, “Now is the time to let our voices be heard.”

 

 

Hermine Hayes-Klein was the organizer of the Human Rights in Childbirth Conference in the Hague on May 31-June 1st of this year.

 

About the obirth blog: The Orgasmic Birth weblog shares the opinions of Orgasmic Birth, Sunken Treasure Publishing and the obirth team as well as weblogs submitted by our readers or guest blogs that may or not be the opinion of Orgasmic Birth. Obirth believes it is time to be BOLD in sharing our thoughts and perspectives, to challenge others to think in new ways and whether we agree or disagree, hopes to have a discussion where we can look at childbirth in new and old ways.  “These are the best of times and the worst of times.”  Opportunity is here to transform maternity care practices and it will take a village. We appreciate your voice and thoughts, along with resources when possible so that together we can contribute to a larger discussion where women, men and communities are empowered to Take Back their Birth!

 

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